Why Men Pull Away
And how you can tap into his deep desire for commitment…
Maggie was confused. Rick had blown her away on their first two dates. No guy had ever worked so hard to impress her.
And impressed she was. He was attentive, respectful, gentle and engaged.
But then, just when she decided she’d fallen for him…poof. He withdrew.
Now their roles had reversed. Overnight, she was working to get his attention.
Why do men do that? Why do men shut women out?
Certainly, not every man pulls away when things start to heat up, but a lot of guys do.
Enough, in fact, that this is a common question among the women I work with as a dating and relationship coach.
Guys come on strong, pursuing with enough passion to make Romeo jealous, but when they win the attention of their Juliet, it’s game over.
What gives?
Look, dating’s a tough gig. Yes, it’s fun and exciting, but it’s also nerve-racking.
At first, it’s all about the chase. He’s trying to get your attention, and you’re deciding whether or not he’s worth it.
That’s the time in any dating relationship when both people are so wrapped up in the pursuit that they’re hardly giving any thought to what will come next.
And then, the pursuit changes.
You decide you’re into the guy, and he, having won your attention, has to begin the process of considering an actual, serious relationship. Does he want one?
More than likely he does, or he wouldn’t have been chasing you!
But, wanting it and being fearless enough to really go after it are two different things.
So, what’s a girl to do?
Well, first I’ll tell you what you should NOT do.
Make Him Want You
How to Make Him Fall in Love with You Faster
Do you ever get a gut feeling about someone the instant you meet them?
When that happens, you know it’s not because of what they said or did. It’s some kind of signal you read in their facial expression, vocal tone, or body language.
Surprisingly, researchers have found that we are quite accurate with these instantaneous assessments about other people.
The simple fact is, you know things about a person the second you meet them. And you react to these unspoken signals automatically.
If you’re good at reading people, you may not find it surprising to learn that men and women notice different kinds of signals when interacting with a potential mate.
To skip ahead to the video that explains the unusual pattern of signals men look for in a romantic relationship, just follow this link.
It explains the hidden signal that either repels a man or makes him feel irresistibly attracted to you.
Otherwise, keep reading to learn about a particular signal you’re broadcasting to men all the time (whether you know it or not).
It’s probably not what you would expect.
You see, there’s a specific kind of body language men simply can’t ignore.
It’s a signal that can spark romantic feelings. Or it can repel him, depending on what he’s reading from your nonverbal cues.
Would you like to know what it is?
Men Are Extremely Sensitive to Something in Your Body Language That You Would Never Expect.
Women often ask me for the words to make a man want you. But the secret to make someone fall in love with you goes a bit deeper.
In fact, your ability to broadcast the right non-verbal message makes all the difference when it comes to attracting the kind of man you want.
If you’ve been attracting attention from guys who fail to connect with you on a deep, emotional level, I may be able to show you why.
You’re probably sending out just one very confusing signal…without even realizing it.
With the wrong signal, you end up with this:
*A slow and painful death for the attraction and passion in your existing relationship.
*Attention from the wrong kind of guys. The ones you aren’t interested in.
*Initial attraction that later fades with the one guy you really wanted to attract.
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